DO YOU HAVE ANY OF THESE QUESTIONS?
• She’s pregnant, what now?
• What are the options?
• Do we tell our parents? How do we tell them?
• Can she choose abortion or adoption without
• I don't know how to be a dad. Where do I get
• How can I be a support to her?
• Are there resources to help us?
YOUR DECISIONS MATTER.
Whether you are considering abortion, adoption, or parenting, Fyndout Free Pregnancy Center is here to help you.
Call us today for an appointment: 907-455-8255
Here’s some quick advice that might benefit you right now:
So you think she might be pregnant? If your girlfriend is pregnant, you are a father. You have not ruined the rest of your life... but your life and her life have changed forever. You have created an opportunity to demonstrate responsibility and maturity.
Listen. The situation involves more than just you. There are now three lives to think about.
Stay Calm. She needs your support now more than ever. She may be carrying the baby, but you are BOTH parents, and regardless of your relationship in the future, that baby needs you too.
Talk about it. Not only with each other, but prepare to talk with parents and others close to the situation. Hiding the news from people who can genuinely help you only increases the stress. Offer to go with her to tell her parents the news.
Be Informed. Get all the information and seek wise counsel so you can make the best decision for both of you.
Be Honest. It is normal to have feelings of anger, frustration, and fear. But make sure she knows she’s not alone; that you’ll be there for her.
YOU SHOULD NOT:
Bail on her. The more you run from this, the harder it becomes to think and act clearly.
Pressure her. Applying pressure will only push her away, possibly into a regretful situation. Both of you would do well to work as a team.
Ignore. You are in this. The decisions you make today will affect you for the rest of your life.
At FYNDOUT FREE PREGNANCY CENTER we can help answer your questions and provide you with accurate information so that you can make an informed decision.
Contact us today 907-455-8255